I am using Apple Mail 10.4.10 and have the SpamSieve filter as the only active rule in my preferences. To take advantage of the option to automatically delete junk (spam) mail, I selected Enable Junk Mail filtering in the Junk Mail preferences, then I used the Advanced option in Perform Custom Actions to set up the two conflicting conditions IS in my Address Book and IS NOT in my Address Book. When I click on OK, the Junk Mail preferences change to Automatic and there is a box checked to exempt Mail addressed using my full name from junk mail filtering. Is that how the Junk Mail preferences should be set? The preferences change back to those settings as soon as I click OK in the previous window.
I also used the Message>SpamSieve-Change Settings to change the name of the spam mailbox to Junk and edited the SpamSieve rule to move all messages to the Junk Mailbox.